Priceful Memories: Goodbye to Great Grandma Miller

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Goodbye to Great Grandma Miller

My great-grandma Miller died at 11pm last night. She was 93. She lived a long, full life so for me, there is no sadness - just relief (for her and Gma Lang). Her husband died last year and she's been living in a care center. She's been close to death a couple times since then, but always rallied. When we went to see her, my Grandma Lang said she wasn't doing well and this might be the last time we see her. We went to see her on January 4th and she died yesterday, January 17th. I'm so glad our family got to say goodbye, even if she couldn't hear us. She was so sweet. She couldn't take her eyes off the kids. She's always loved babies and even held Aiden for a few seconds (then he was off!).

One of my favorite memories with Grandma Miller was going to her clubhouse for Christmas Eve. All the cousins were there, we ate, danced, and had a blast. I remember thinking her community club house seemed like a taste of paradise. I've since gone back and thought the mobile home community was pretty cheesy - oh the bliss of innocence! Charles & GGma used to get us McDonald's gift cards for Christmas when we were little and we thought that was the coolest. I think they used to get the adults lotto cards if I remember right! I also loved that she loved stuffed animals so much. It was especially great when my kids went to her house because they had toys to play with! She had such a loving heart.

One of the things I love the most about Wanda Miller is the wonderful daughters she raised, in particular, my Grandma Lang. I grew up 5 minutes away from my Grandma Lang and she has been there for me at all the big and little stages of my life. She is one of the few who ALWAYS sends me a birthday card on my birthday - it often arrives on the actual day. I could write a whole book about my Grandma Lang and all the traits I admire and strive for that she possesses but I'll leave that for another day.

My Grandma Lang found a Book of Mormon that my cousin and I had given to Grandma Miller when we were younger. I'd always hoped she'd get baptized, but she never did. I'm grateful for the knowledge that she lives after this life, and that she can still choose on the other side. I'm so grateful that this life is not the beginning or the end and that we, as beings, can continue to develop our characters to become more perfect, more like our Savior. I'm grateful for examples in my life that have made me who I am today and will continue to influence who I am tomorrow. I'm grateful to have another angel watching over my kids from heaven.

We love you Great-Grandma!

6 comments:

Nina @ Momma Go Round said...: Beautiful Jess! We are so lucky that she helped bring you to us :); 1/19/2011 12:39 AM
Mary Staples said...: Still sad! Love you.; 1/19/2011 12:43 AM
likeschocolate said...: Sorry to hear your great grandma passed away last night. I bet she was surrounded by those who went before her on the other side. I guess you have your work cut out for you come next year this time. Don't forget to do her work. Hugs from Georgia. Hey, this might not be the time, but I am concocting a plan. Do you have a guest bedroom? I am heading to Seattle in the fall and was thinking maybe I could stop overnight in SLC. Would love to get you to take some pictures of my little one. Of course I would pay. Otherwise, I just might have to find a way to get you out here to Georgia. I want my baby to have pictures by you. Let me know what you think?; 1/19/2011 12:48 AM
Tiffany said...: Oh, that was sweet Jess. It was fun to remember those little details about her, I have all of the same memories! love you!; 1/19/2011 2:03 AM
jessi said...: what a sweet tribute to her. i am sure the reunion was sweet on the other side :); 1/19/2011 2:02 PM
grandma lang said...: Thank you Jess for the sweet tribute to Great Grandma and to me and the sweet memories Love ya Grandma Lang; 1/20/2011 2:15 AM

Kelsey Speaks

April 14: Advertising works, even for kids. Kels just came up to me with my iPhone and the app "Team Umizoomi" ready to purchase. I asked her how she knew about it and she said, "this mom put team umizoomi on for her kids and it teached her kids and he did it all by himself!" I've seen that commercial too, but never realized how much she soaked in! I'm a sucker, I downloaded it.

March 14:

We were having a new babysitter come and Kelsey wanted her to play a game but wasn't sure she'd know how. "What language does she speak?" I said, "English." Kels said, "Oh no!" I said, "Kelsey, did you know that YOU speak English?" She looked surprised, "I do!?"

October 17:

We had our carpet pad replaced today and the carpet guy was using a heavy duty iron that smelled like burning. Kelsey came in and said, "Mom, is that dinner I smell?" Thanks Kels, thanks. Says a lot about my cooking!

October 11:

So I'm on the phone and the Kelsey does soemthing that makes Aiden cry. I tell Kelsey, PLEASE make it better, say your sorry and make him stop crying. She starts singing, "Flower gleam and glow, let your power shine, make the clock reverse, bring back what once was mine..." I started cracking up. I think she's a little too obsessed with Tangled.

February 19:
Family prayer
"Thank you that Aiden is incredible and that he could watch Incredibles with me. And thank you that mommy can change things."

February 9:
Family prayer tonight by Kelsey: "Thank you that mommy could be a good listener (?), thank you that mommy can be so stretchable...in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen." I laughed and asked her what stretchable meant. She said it meant that I can read Aiden books and change his diaper, put us to bed, play with us, and wiggle us and throw us, stuff like that. Does that mean she's grateful I can do mommy stuff?

January 5:
While at my mom's house in California, she said, "I want to stay at Mimi's forever!" I asked, what about your toys and our home in Utah?" She replied, "I like Mimi's toys downstairs." "But what about your friends back in Utah?" She replied, "they can get in the car and drive really, really far and come see me!" She has it all figured out.

January 4, 2011:
Tally read aloud a sign as we passed a church, "Jesus is making a list." She said, "No, Santa is making a list, and checking it twice."

December 20:
She was sad after I scolded her for taking her brother's food. I asked her why she was sad and she said, "My life hurts right now."
"With Christmas just a few days away?" I said. She perked right up.

December 13:
Tal was going to bed early and we all jumped in bed to give him hugs and say goodnight. Kelsey said, "I like it when our whole family is in bed together. Dad, you're hot. But I like it hot. You're the hottest."

December 9:
I had made a big effort to go to the gym and literally had 30 minutes to work out and then be back before everyone came over for play group. I get Kelsey out of the car and walk around to get Aiden. Kelsey says, "Mom, you can't wear THOSE shoes to the gym!" I looked down and sure enough, I was wearing my Crocs. I'm so glad she saw it before I'd gotten Aiden out of his car seat, gotten the kids checked into day care, and stepped on the treadmill. 10 points for trying, right?

October 22:
"Mom, I don't wanna have a baby in my tummy. I don't want to have a baby doggy come out."

October 3:
"Mom, you shut up and I'll shut down." (playing around with the word shut up to get a reaction from me).

September 30:
"Aiden, you have pretty eyebrows."
August 15
While sitting in our master bathroom, Kelsey said, "You guys have two sinks."
Us: "Yes, we have two sinks, isn't that nice?"
K: "No, I don't like it, you need to take one out. I need more room to sit."
Tal: "When you get married, you can have one sink in your bathroom."
K: "When I marry Aiden?" (who she said she wanted to marry when we were talking about weddings the day before).
Tal: "You can't marry Aiden, he's your brother."
K: "I want to marry DADDY!"
Jess: "He's mine, darlin. Daddy is already married to mommy."
K: "My cousins?"
Us: (Laugh, gave up...we'll have this talk one day when she's ready) She is constantly playing with my bouquet of silk flowers in my room and saying, "I'm getting married mom." I guess she picked that up on her own...I don't think I've ever talked about the flowers with her!

August 11:
As I'm putting her to bed I said, "Kelsey, your little body is so tired because you didn't take a nap today and little bodies need naps."
"And sometimes big bodies do too?" she said.
After the gym today, we caught her doing her hand clasp thing. Tally said, "Don't do that, you're doing it so hard you're getting sweaty."
She replied, firmly, "Well I just back from the gym." (which is true, but she was at the play place at the gym)
May
(While shutting herself inside the kitchen pantry)
K: Alright Aiden, I'm going bye-bye to Lily's house, 2 seconds, and when I come back, I'm going to Zoe's house. Okay? Okay, see ya later.
(about 2 seconds later, she opens the door)
K: Oh, hi Zoe's house!
She has been cracking me up (mixed with a little worry) with her imagination. If you ask her what she did today, she'll say she played with her cousins. We don't play with cousins everyday, but she does, in her imaginary play. She'll tell Libby and Zoe to come downstairs to the playroom or come outside with her. Then I'll hear her telling one of them to go hide or that this doll is for them or that they are nice. She will also throw in Lily and Edie, and an occasional Colton, Carter or Spencer. But that's more rare. Maybe because she sees them the most? Or because they are boys.
She also loves to pretend she's mommy and I'm Kelsey. She'll ask me, "is your pee-pees coming, mommy?" (No, is yours?) She'll also say, "you want a treat Kelsey? Okay. " Or my favorite, "You go in time out mommy, no-no." When I ask what I did wrong she'll say it's because I hit Aiden. Shocking.
She is also such a good sister. When I was reading my friend Mary's blog today who just lost her baby girl and bawling, she came over and gave me a big hug and said, "it's okay mommy." Then, because I wasn't paying attention to the fact that Aiden had run out of Cheerios and was "asking" for more, she fed him her Cheerios. Then she came up to me and said, "mommy, Aiden wants more Cheerios." She's a great little mommy.
5/?- (while Tal is at work)
K: Mom, I want to tell dad I had fun at the doctor today - daddy, I had fun at the doctor today - oh you did - yeah, dr. M was really nice. Yeah? Yeah.
She has little conversations with herself as she imagines the conversation she had or will have. These crack me up. She does it all the time, I just need to remember to write them down.
5/29 -
K: Mom, don't let Swiper come swipe our new house, okay?
M: Okay, I will. I'll tell him, Swiper no swiping, okay?
K: Yeah!
She's on this kick where she says "everytime" or "everday" with almost every sentence. I guess she's learning how to tell time/days?
She also sings all the time, usually "I am a Child of God." How can I ever get mad at that sweet little thing?
February 1, 2010
J: "Kelsey, get up on the stool so we can wash your hands."
K: "Mommy, you need to pull my pants up first."
J: "Okay, sorry"
K: "You don't need to say sorry mami."
She's been saying sorry to EVERYTHING and so I think she's heard that a lot lately from me. It's funny to hear your own words come from the mouths of your little ones.
January 28, 2010
K: "I want to be baptized."
J: "You do? How old are you?"
K: "TWO! Aiden wants to be baptized too."
J: "You have to be 8 to be baptized."
K: "Oh, I EIGHT!"
A little boy was baptized last Sunday and she started noticing it more in her books about Jesus and we talked about it a few times this week. But the subject hadn't come up this day - she said it out of the blue.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Goodbye to Great Grandma Miller

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